It strikes me as odd that I felt the urge to write about judgements people have made about me. Especially when one of them is that I'm judgemental.
Maybe they were really just observations, but looking back, they sure feel like judgements, especially with all the examples of the things I did wrong and how wrong it was of me to do/say what I did/said.
There are two different things that I've learned from writing this.
1. Calling someone judgemental is being judgemental yourself.
2. Even if you think you're just stating an opinion/observation, your listener might think you're judging them.
It leaves me with one very important question: How can we distinguish between opinion/concern and judgement?
(this is where, if you actually read this, you're supposed to comment)
posted by Amy : 10:39:00 PM